Do I complain about the over-commercialization of my
favorite holidays?
Yes.
Do I sigh when I see Halloween and Christmas decorations out
in August?
Yes.
Do I also make myself “part of the problem” by going out on
Thanksgiving night to get fantastic bargains on Christmas gifts and other
things I need?
Yes
I am torn on preparation, buying things, and many things regarding holiday celebrations.
Do I think you should consider getting your kid hooked up
for Halloween in August?
Yes.
Why?
It comes down to the kids now being able and interested in designing their own costumes. They have
definite ideas and that is good. Before this year, my boys would take whatever (more or less) that was handed to them.
My daughter, though , always wanted very
specific things for her Halloween costume. This year, it is Elsa from Frozen. The coolest part about the whole dressing up
thing is that your kid can put his/her mind into creative ways to make their
chosen character/creature come to life. This year, that visualization did not align with whatever Target,
Party City, or Costco had in mind. One is example is my son Max's desire to have a Captain America shield to go with his Iron Man costume.
Guiding kids through how to turn their vision into reality
is a great precursor to how to bring arguments to life (by thinking them
through, using resources, and carefully assembling). If you start this process in mid September,
school will be in session. It will be
harder to get things. Timelines will be
tight. Visions will have to be cut
short. Not cool.
So, this year, we decided to let the kids begin thinking
about these things on the weekend before they went back to summer
camp/pre-school (after spending a month with me, adventuring). It worked great.
Backorders, difficulties, special requests, and other
complications were able to be addressed.
For example, Chloe wants a cape/shawl to go with her Else costume. Because it is August, she can ask one of our extremely talented
family members to help sew what Chloe envisions. She wants little snow flake patches. These can be identified and procured. The costume can fulfill Chloe’s vision. Nice.
We also can read reviews of the costumes (instead of quick
buying in a store). Max wanted to by a
Skylander. The reviews online said the
mask was heavy and made it hard for kids to breathe. We were able to steer him to a better rated
(and just as cool) Iron Man costume.
It also leaves you time to think about how you decorate the
outside of your house for Halloween.
Lights, pumpkins, ghouls, and goblins can all be a part of the drawings
and plans. Another avenue for the vision->planning->procurement->completion
cycle.
Yes, is weird to be penning a column on Halloween in
August. I accept that it seems early to
do it. However, I want the kids to get
used to the process of bringing what they envision into reality, so I think it
is worth the acceptance of decorations out a little before I am ready to see
them.
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